My husband and i regularly have movie dates. we make i a point that we do this often as we know it will all change if bubs arrive ( which i hope soon). Last night we watched Blue valentine, its a story between a married couple reminiscing how they were in the past four years to their aching and sour relationship they are know. It left a hanging thought to the viewers for us to think about what if and what could and what should happen. I was one of those rare moments that hubby and I had a good discussion and reflected on people we know who are in sour married relationships. Relationships that were intoxicated by frustrations, low tolerance, envy, complacency and lack of communication. we have known others that have been intoxicated by their colleagues opinions and competitions and poor wives, nags their confused husbands as to where it all came from. Demanding of "I will leave you if you will not" which is just sad and appaling.
But i have only been married for a year and 6 months and 2 weeks. Who am i to judge how others go through and handle their relationships. I and hubby are both happy with our marriage and hope it will always be like this and even more. It dawned on me that relationships can have rough patches in some point of our lives but the question is how do you want the rough patch to end and let not material matters or frusrations win over the beautiful relationship that couples commit to.
I like, i should say i am blessed with my marriage. The best of me has sprung because of my marriage. i just have to enjoy every bit of life we have together and put more pink than blue in our lives...
